Dear Oliver,
Four years from this moment you came in to the world, early and on your
own terms. I should have known then that you’d be a handful. I often say the
person who coined the twos as terrible had clearly not lived through the threes yet. If I’m completely honest, much of this year was a challenge as you pushed
your boundaries and tested our patience. When I’m at my wits end I think of what
your Oma once told me. She told me that when kids turn 4 they turn in to lovely little
people. I’ve held on to that and I’m thrilled to say that in the last few weeks
I feel like she might be right. You’ve been just delicious lately and I hope we
see this side of you more and more as the year goes on.
This year has brought so many changes in your life. You were thrown from
our quiet, isolated life in Nunavut to a world where you’ve had to navigate all
new social situations. You’ve found your place among our extended family. Isaac, Erik and yourself have
become the best of friends and you love spending days at Courtney’s, Oma’s
and Grammy's. You've also adjusted from being at home with me to going to a
babysitter and to Preschool 3 days a week. You seem to be thriving and we’ve
seen so many positive changes brought on by the additional stimulation and
structure that going to school brings to your life. I love hearing about what you've learned at the end of the day. And I really enjoy you singing me songs your songs. And of course, you never sing without doing a silly dance along with it. It's just the way you roll.
You are growing up to be a wonderful young man I can be proud of. People
always comment on how polite you are and how you are very considerate and kind
to other people. You wear your heart on your sleeve and that heart is
huge. You aren’t shy to tell people you love them or will miss them sooooo
much. I'm happy to say that you are also very, very smart. You love to see how things work and still have that love of pushing buttons to see what happens. You are forever surprising us with how your
brain works. You seem to be 3 steps ahead of us most time and know how to work
things to your advantage. I see your father in how your brain works and I’m
already dreading your teenage years. It will certainly be interesting.
Through all the ups and downs you always keep us laughing. Whether it was a
memorable quote or you just being the silly guy you are you can always bring a
smile to our faces. Some of my favorite quotes of the year are:
-I’m a pizza eater and this is my pizza eater costume!
-(after farting in the tub) No mommy, you don’t have to say 'excuse me' if there’s bubbles.
-Get Tank out of here! He’s freakin’ me out!
-I’m all dressed and I look fantastic!
-See you at my house Santa! Don’t forget to be quick and bring Super Mario 10 with you!
-I’m sweet.... and sour.
-When I turn 8 I’m going to get boobs like yours.
-“what’s going on?” Said on the Scrambler while laughing insanely.
-Snackarama!
-You have learned to write your name and your letters.
-Your favorite friend at school is Brooklyn and her mom tells me she feels the same way.
-Your favorite colors are green and orange.
-Your favorite food is pigs in a blanket.
-Your favorite toys (other than the Wii) are Hot Wheels cars.
-Your snuggles are the still the best.
So here’s to you O-Boy.
Happy Birthday
I love you
Akuluuk
Love Mom
-I’m a pizza eater and this is my pizza eater costume!
-(after farting in the tub) No mommy, you don’t have to say 'excuse me' if there’s bubbles.
-Get Tank out of here! He’s freakin’ me out!
-I’m all dressed and I look fantastic!
-See you at my house Santa! Don’t forget to be quick and bring Super Mario 10 with you!
-I’m sweet.... and sour.
-When I turn 8 I’m going to get boobs like yours.
-“what’s going on?” Said on the Scrambler while laughing insanely.
-Snackarama!
Some things I want you to know about your self-
-You have a mad obsession with Mario Brothers and insist that we call you
Mario. Isaac is Luigi and you call Dad Yoshi. And me, you call me Princess and I
love it. -You have learned to write your name and your letters.
-Your favorite friend at school is Brooklyn and her mom tells me she feels the same way.
-Your favorite colors are green and orange.
-Your favorite food is pigs in a blanket.
-Your favorite toys (other than the Wii) are Hot Wheels cars.
-Your snuggles are the still the best.
Happy Birthday
I love you
Akuluuk
Love Mom